The Subtle Thief of Vibrant Living

_mg_1243I remember the first time an email popped up on my phone.  I was at a stop light on my way to work and my boss had emailed me asking for a ride to the office. Immediately, it changed my mood and my direction. It may seem simple, but that moment in time altered the natural rhythm of my life moving forward.

It almost seems absurd to say that moment was significant because we have become accustomed to living with a computer in our back pocket. How quickly we adapt to new technology without thinking about how it affects the way we are meant to live.

In seasons of exhaustion, I become nostalgic for a time when I was younger, when I lived out of my full heart. When the only thing my phone could do was dial and wifi was hard to find. My mind was free and stoplights were designated times for day dreaming._mg_1277 It’s incredible how much technology has helped advance my career, connected me to the world and made me feel more productive. This constant connectivity has become our routine but it has also become a subtle thief that restrains our flourishing lives. It ties us to our work and interrupts time spent with others. It often evokes unnecessary feelings of sadness, stress or worry.

Two years ago, I came to the realization that in order to be the kind of woman who pours myself wholeheartedly into everything, I had to find space in my routine for my heart to be uninhibited. For me that meant changing the way I interacted with technology.

Here are some of the practical ways I changed my weekly routine to make space for life.

  1. I turned off all social media notifications on my phone. If I wanted to upload a photo or write a post, I picked 2 times in the day when I would do so. This eliminated the constant distraction of exploring what was happening in the world and seriously helped reduce my FOMO (fear of missing out!)
  2. On the weekends, I turned off all email notifications on my phone. It helped me keep my mind focused on the present and not the things I hadn’t done or needed to do for work.
  3. I stopped bringing any form of technology into my bedroom. That’s right, no Netflix on my laptop in bed, no phone to roll over to in the morning. I literally bought an old school, battery powered, clock to use as my alarm instead of my phones. It was a challenge but I found myself sleeping better, more present with my husband, and even enjoying my morning before diving into the virtual world.
  4. Before I touch technology, I write. I spend every morning writing out 3 pages of continuous thought to clear my head of the clutter that quickly emerges with the day.

Whatever your rhythms of life may be, I hope you find a way to eliminate the things that are subtly holding back. The next time you’re waiting in line or sitting in traffic, resist the urge to grab your phone. Let yourself be still. Listen to the moment. You might just hear your heart flourishing.

Photos by Karen Marie Co. featuring  Caroline Artime designs


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